Dating Tips

How to Boost Your Confidence With Women

FACT: All women love a man with confidence.

This just isn’t a human trait — nearly every species which participate in any sort of mating ritual, requires the successful mating male to be a confident one.

Consider the following: We think of lions and their giant mane of hair and ferocious roar; we see male peacocks and their beautiful feathers exploding behind them; or giant bull frogs and their audacious grunts at night — all exuding confidence. The males with the scariest roar, most beautiful feathers, and loudest grunts all seem to make out with the ladies, right? Take a lesson.

Simply put, every male, in order to be successful at mating, needs to exhibit a sense of confidence to the female.

Of course, as humans, we don’t grow giant antlers or horns, we don’t have big bright feathers, nor do we have a mating call, but we do have other things that display confidence — and we need to use them or exploit them for us to have sex — and lots of it!

So, how do you boost your confidence with women? How do you make them get wet with excitement when they hear your voice down the hall?

While this isn’t an article that is intended to solve your childhood insecurity issues, there are a few things that you can do that will boost your confidence today — which can lead to successful opportunities to engage and hopefully have sex with the women of your choice!

First, understand what women want: security and stability. If you have these two similar attributes in your personal life, then you have just shot to the top 20% of the males seeking mates. If you aren’t secure about who you are, and what good qualities you have, then how are you going to display any real confidence to approaching females?

The issues of security and confidence require constant attention and devotion to maintain — it usually takes some effort. Beyond that, there are other ways to make you feel good about yourself which will help invite more confidence within you:

1. Clean yourself up. There’s nothing like a great haircut, a close, clean shave, and a hot shower. You feel good, fresh, and ready to conquer the world. A well kept man can say a lot to woman you meet. It means you value you who are.
2. Know what you are good at. The world requires us to be generalists and to be good at everything. Don’t be. Take the things that interest you and be passionate about those things. If you invest in the things you love, you will display passion for them – and women just love passion. If you have passion about any subject, you become a leader in your field. And that’s what leads us to number three.
3. Be passionate. Find the thing that makes you wake up in the morning! Invest in that every day! Your passion about your subject will be an automatic magnet for women. Women just love a man with passion. Why? It means you believe in something. You have dedicated yourself to something worthwhile. Women absolutely love this kind of commitment and leadership.
4. Wisdom: Understanding that what separates you from the Brad Pitts of the world is not much. Did you know that humans and chimps are about 99.9% the same? Yes, but it’s that .01 % that matters most, right? Now, what does that mean the difference is between you and Brad Pitt? Not very much! In fact, you probably have more things in common than you realize.
5. Be Unique. Many people want to fit in. Many people don’t want to stick out in the crowd. But that’s not going to be you. Dare to be different. Welcome diversity in your life — new blood, new friends, new ways of thinking and doing things. If the life you have been leading hasn’t working for you up to know, don’t you think it’s time to shake things up a bit?
6. Your confidence comes from within. Your confidence isn’t determined by what people think of you or whether people accept you or not. After all, not everyone will like you. But then again, do you like everyone you meet? Probably not. So, get over it. You’re a great person and you don’t need someone who has never met or know anything about you, determine whether or not you deserve their attention.

Follow these principles, along with understanding what women want security, stability and you can work on increasing your confidence every day! Soon, women will be drawn to that magnetism – you just won’t know what to do with all of your new found opportunities!

Where to Go on Your First Date

That is an age-old question. Cave men had it made. They firmly believed in kidnapping and taking their date to a filthy cave out in the middle of nowhere. Those were what was known as the good old days. Now days first date destinations and plans are a little trickier. First let’s cover where NOT to go on a first date.

The old standby of dinner and a movie is a really poor choice for a first date. How will you get to know the lady if you are sitting in a darkened theater with a movie being shown? If you choose the movie, there is probably going to be a lot of frantic car chases and a lot of blood involved. Neither are conducive to creating a memorable evening.

Also, don’t take your date to your parent’s house! She will know right away that you are a mama’s boy and you will never see her again.

Don’t take your date to a sleazy bar with a motel out back. You will scare the poor woman to death. She will jump out of the car and hitchhike back to town believing that she would be safer with a burly truck driver than with you.
Now, some good first date ideas are:

Begin with a simple lunch or coffee date. You want to keep the date casual so suggesting meeting up for lunch or coffee can be a good start. This way, if the first dating encounter didn’t go so well, you can end the date there but if you enjoy each other company, you have the rest of the day to spend getting to know each other better.

Here are some ideas of where to go if the lunch or coffee date tells you’re there is some good chemistry happening:

If it is the season, an amusement park or a theme park is a good first date idea. It doesn’t matter how old you are, we can all be big kids at heart. There’re so much you can do at amusement parks and theme parks that most likely you will forget about the dating pressure and just have fun.

Most well populated areas have an array of museums covering many different subjects. Visiting one that is dedicated to something that you have in common with the woman is another good first date idea.